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Katharine's avatar

I appreciate your writing so much. I am sick to death of this incredibly damaging political polarisation of motherhood that is so prevalent (especially when it wears "Christian" garb). It does so much harm to women. The Lord never prescribed specific life paths for entire demographics, with attached promises, and it is misrepresenting him to indicate or imply that he does.

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For me, a very important process of discerning when/whether to have more children is to simply tell someone (usually my husband) all my fears about another pregnancy and baby. Only once all the fears have been articulated and are out in the open can I really start to understand if they are self-focused fears to overcome or nudges from God that now is not the right time. But if the fears stay in my head, they crowd out everything else and cloud my ability to discern. By naming her fears, I think the letter writer is taking the first steps to happily starting a family!

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